Feeling at home in Amsterdam can take time, even after buying a house. Moving to a new country is a significant step, and while Amsterdam is a vibrant and welcoming city, it can also feel overwhelming. Many say, “Everyone speaks English,” but that isn’t completely true. Some locals may not speak English confidently. This isn’t a sign they aren’t welcoming; it’s often just a language barrier.

At How to Buy a House, we understand that settling into your new home is just as important as finding it. If you find it hard to feel at home, remember it is not you. By taking small, intentional steps, you can connect with your surroundings and feel more at ease in your new city.

Start by rediscovering your neighbourhood

Take a walk or bike ride without a set destination. You might stumble upon a charming bakery, a peaceful park, or a cosy cafe you hadn’t noticed before. Familiarity with your surroundings helps create a sense of belonging.

Look for local events to attend

Amsterdam is full of weekly markets, workshops, and gatherings where you can meet locals and expats. Websites like Amsterdam Meetup can help you find events nearby. Joining in makes it easier to feel part of the community. On Facebook are expat groups and people organising all sorts of events. Join the ones that feels good for you.

Your house should feel like home

Add personal touches like family photos, art, or nice furniture to create a warm and welcoming home in Amsterdam. A comfortable space makes settling into a new city easier. Consider hiring an interior designer to help create a cosy atmosphere. Coming home should always feel relaxing and inviting.

Find a favourite spot in the city that feels like yours

This could be a coffee shop, a park bench, or even a grocery store. Regular places to visit add a routine to your day and create a sense of stability. You might even find new friendships in these places. A simple smile or a quick chat with someone at your local cafe or grocery store can lead to meaningful connections.

Joining a group or club is another way to meet people and build connections

Amsterdam has a lot of options, from yoga and cycling to book clubs and social groups. Meeting like-minded people can help the city feel smaller and more welcoming. Don’t limit yourself to just your neighbourhood. Amsterdam is full of unique areas, each with its own character. Spend time in neighbourhoods like De Pijp, Jordaan, or Oud-West. Visiting new places can help you fall in love with Amsterdam even more.

Learning a few Dutch phrases can make a big difference

Simple greetings like “hallo” or “goedemorgen” to neighbours or shopkeepers can make a difference. Amsterdam locals may seem reserved, but they appreciate friendliness. Small conversations can lead to meaningful connections over time. It can also make daily tasks, like ordering coffee or shopping easy.  Locals often appreciate the effort, even if your pronunciation isn’t perfect. Over time, speaking a little Dutch will make Amsterdam feel less like a foreign city and more like your own.

Be patient with yourself

Moving to Amsterdam is a big step, and it’s natural to feel overwhelmed. But in time you will find your place in this beautiful city. At How to Buy a House, we are here to support you every step of the way—from buying your home to settling into your new life. If you’re looking for more advice, resources, or personal guidance, send a message to monique@howtobuya.house. We’re here to make your transition smoother and your experience in Amsterdam truly memorable.